Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take for the pain to subside?

Postpartum pain varies from mother to mother, however, on average, it lasts six weeks. Factors that might influence this number include

  • C-section: gentle cleaning and drying of the scar helps to prevent infection that may prolong the pain
  • Tearing

How long should I wait to go to my postpartum check-up and is it necessary?

Yes! Postpartum check-ups are a must!

Not only does it help ensure you’re healing properly, but it also gives you a chance to discuss any health concerns with your physician. Physicians will:

  • Check the body (bladder, pelvis, breasts, etc. for infection and functionality
  • Discuss future pregnancy plans, birth control, and when sex and exercise are okay
  • Discuss mental and emotional wellness

How long until sex is safe?

It is recommended to wait at least six weeks postpartum to have sex.

This may vary between mothers depending on the duration of the healing process. Tears may cause healing to take longer if they are large and bleeding may also prolong the period. Overall, you may feel tired vaginal dryness, pain, and low sexual desire. It is important to go slow as to not cause any more pain or possible tears.

Is bleeding normal? How much is normal?

It is completely normal! You just pushed a baby out!

Bleeding occurs anywhere from three to six weeks and should get relatively lighter over the weeks. If bleeding is heavy (1 pad every hour for 3 consecutive hours), call your physician immediately. It should go from a bright red to pink to brown and then yellow, much like a regular period.

Baby Blues vs. Postpartum Depression?

Baby Blues are common in most women and usually follow two to three days after birth. Symptoms may include but are not limited to:

  • Anxiety
  • Sadness
  • Appetite Changes
  • Crying
  • Trouble Sleeping

Postpartum depression can be mistaken for Baby Blues but exhibit more intense symptoms such as:

  • Hopeless/Worthlessness
  • Panic Attacks
  • Withdrawal from family and friends
  • Thoughts of harming baby or yourself
  • Difficulty bonding with baby

Sources

Columbia Basin Health Association. (2018). Six Reasons it’s Important to Keep your 6-Week Postpartum Appointment. Retrieved July 20, 2023, from Columbia Basin Health Association website: Link

Condie, N. (2020, May 14). Postpartum Recovery: What To Expect And How To Heal. Retrieved from Cache Valley Women’s Center website: Link

Mass General Brigham Newton Wellesley Hospital . (n.d.). Postpartum Pain Management | Newton-Wellesley Hospital. Retrieved from www.nwh.org website: Link

Mayo Clinic. (n.d.). Sex after pregnancy: Set your own timeline. Retrieved from Mayo Clinic website: Link